"Here is my secret. It is very simple: It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.."- Antoine de Saint Exupéry

Letter to a Sir


day after day
as you get close, wanting more
longing to find her weakness
asking for her soul
willing to possess her
she sees you better
and takes one more step away.
there will be
no tears for you
you will have no satisfaction
for with every tear
that would flow on her face
because of you
you would be sentenced to Hell.
you will have no control
nor her trust.
trust must be deserved
control must be shared
love must be proved.
there will be no slave
in her story
for if you can’t
respect her and
set her free
you don’t deserve her.
there will be no pain
for your sake
no Sir, no Dom, no Master
her soul is not for sale.
keep your empty pleasure.
she has only one God:


memyselfandela, 2013

Dedicated to all women that are manipulated into mutilating relationships.

May they have the force to see what is being done to their soul, mind and body.

May they be set free and truly loved.

4 responses

  1. I agree Ela, no woman, man or person alike should ever be forced or manipulated into anything.

    January 21, 2013 at 21:29

  2. petit4chocolatier


    January 21, 2013 at 22:22

  3. Such an important statement here Ela ~ and so well done. Brava to you. I think there needs to be more clear definition in this realm of sexuality ~ where is the line crossed between playful polarity (among 2 consenting adults) – and violence or emotional/physical abuse… can be a fine line in this arena ~ Love to you, RL

    January 21, 2013 at 23:32

  4. Mesmerizing words with a great message! I love the spirit of its words! God bless!

    February 7, 2013 at 09:51

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