"Here is my secret. It is very simple: It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.."- Antoine de Saint Exupéry



There are many men. But few Men. A real Man with capital M is one that always keeps his promises. Who is capable to protect even with the price of his own life or pleasure. It is someone that knows that life will humble him anyway, but that rises above everything through his resistance and wisdom. Someone who would never offend a woman in any way. Someone who does not lie. Someone who you can rely on, always. Someone who can realize that he can be  wrong and wants to evolve. Someone that knows that  pointing a finger at someone else means pointing four fingers at himself. Someone that has fears, but is never ruled by them. Someone who is always strong and wise, but never obsessed with controlling, dominating , leading or being right. Someone who cares for his woman not only in body, but also in soul. Someone who truly loves his woman above all, no matter what.


memyselfandela, 2013

19 responses

  1. I agree Ela.

    January 22, 2013 at 17:24

    • Only a Man recognizes a Man, mea cor 😉

      January 22, 2013 at 22:16

  2. How about a real Woman ?
    I truly believe that in most of cases it is quite sufficient just to be Real, either you are a man or a woman.

    January 22, 2013 at 18:06

    • Well, if you put it like this a Real Woman is one that does almost the same things: sacrifice, honour, love, strength, wisdom, no lies. 🙂
      Who had met real Men or Women in life knows what I mean. They give of their love, wisdom, strength, force… They are fantastic people.

      January 22, 2013 at 22:19

  3. And what I have learned Ela ~ is this ‘real man’ can only offer what you describe once he is has found his own center – his own love of self – and secure in the knowing of his purpose… only then can he offer his lover the depth of passion and presence you so beautifully describe. It’s a rare and precious find indeed ~ Lovely post sweet friend ! x R

    January 22, 2013 at 18:14

    • Yes, good description: a self centered strong loving man.
      Thank you so much my dear Robyn X Ela

      January 22, 2013 at 22:21

  4. Agree!

    January 22, 2013 at 23:57

    • Thank you. 🙂

      January 23, 2013 at 00:05

      • You’re always welcome! Cheers~ 😀

        January 23, 2013 at 07:02

  5. I enjoyed your words and messages tonight! After your visit I wanted to meet your life light in your words, i am moved by them for you are a very talented writer/ poet. I say that, because that is what i feel from the spirit of your words. Thanks for visiting my site! Until another time…God bless!

    January 23, 2013 at 04:00

    • Thank you my friend, God bless!

      January 23, 2013 at 09:11

  6. True words …But in today’s world is hard to find such man. I think more or less people are now hiding the real one behind the fake face which they wear just to show the world that they are more practical than emotional. But anyways my hopes are high & fingers are crossed to meet such a MAN in my life 🙂

    January 23, 2013 at 10:39

    • 🙂 I keep my fingers crossed for you, my dear 😉

      January 23, 2013 at 12:22

      • Thank you so much dear & I pray to god may he blessed you with all good thing of this world 🙂

        January 24, 2013 at 08:10

  7. eu

    bla bla – sa vad ca si voi femeile produceti ceva ca doar vorbe vad si prea putine fapte – cata ipocrizie…

    January 23, 2013 at 13:24

    • Stimate “EU”, nu stiu cu ce am provocat atata frustrare in raspunsul tau… Blogul meu e motivational si pozitiv. Daca ai numai remarci cinice in program te invit sa cauti alt blog. As simple as that. Have a nice day.

      January 23, 2013 at 13:32

      • eu


        January 25, 2013 at 09:13

    • Nu ce? Nu mai ai remarci negative, nu se mai repeta sau nu cauti alt blog? 🙂

      January 25, 2013 at 22:33

  8. petit4chocolatier

    So beautiful. Made me cry. Wow.., it does work both ways too.

    January 24, 2013 at 02:23

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